Unrequited
Love:
My
Experience
with
a
Secret
Crush Have
you
ever
been
secretly
in
love
with
someone,
but
never
confessed
your
feelings?
I
have.
As
a
young
woman,
I
fell
head
over
heels
for
a
guy
I
knew
from
school.
His
name
was
John,
and
he
was
the
most
charming
and
handsome
guy
I
knew.
However,
he
never
knew
how
I
felt
about
him. I
spent
most
of
my
time
daydreaming
about
him,
imagining
what
it
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be
like
to
be
his
girlfriend.
I
created
scenarios
in
my
head
and
rehearsed
what
I
would
say
if
I
ever
got
the
courage
to
confess
my
feelings
to
him.
But,
deep
down,
I
knew
that
was
never
going
to
happen. I
was
too
shy
and
insecure
to
make
a
move,
so
I
just
watched
him
from
afar.
I
would
follow
him
on
social
media,
looking
at
his
photos
and
posts,
hoping
to
get
a
glimpse
into
his
life.
However,
this
only
made
me
more
miserable,
as
it
was
a
constant
reminder
of
what
I
could
never
have. As
time
passed,
I
realized
that
my
crush
on
John
was
just
a
fantasy,
and
that
he
was
never
going
to
reciprocate
my
feelings.
It
was
a
tough
lesson
to
learn,
but
it
taught
me
to
value
myself
and
not
put
all
my
happiness
into
somebody
else's
hands. Now,
years
later,
I
look
back
on
my
experience
with
a
mixture
of
amusement
and
embarrassment.
I
wish
I
could
have
been
more
confident
and
told
John
how
I
felt,
but
I
also
know
that
it
was
for
the
best
that
I
moved
on. To
all
those
who
are
currently
experiencing
unrequited
love,
I
want
you
to
know
that
you
are
not
alone.
It’s
natural
to
develop
feelings
for
someone,
but
it’s
important
to
remember
that
your
self-worth
should
not
be
dependent
on
someone
else's
affection.
Take
care
of
yourself
and
focus
on
creating
a
life
filled
with
love
and
happiness,
even
if
it's
not
with
the
person
you
initially
desired.